The attendants you select for your Bridal party serve a largely honourary role. It is customary to select sisters of the Bride or Groom, other relatives such as cousins or close friends. The number of bridesmaids is up to you. but, in general, smaller weddings have a smaller number of maids.
In Canadian society, it is traditional for the bridesmaids to pay for the purchase or rental of their own wedding day attire. In some other cultures, however, this is normally the responsibility of the Bride's family. Be clear regarding expectations from the beginning to avoid awkwardness.
As the Bride, it is important to be aware of possible financial limitations in your bridal party members and so do not expect them to pay more than they can reasonably afford.
It is ultimately your decision regarding bridesmaids gowns. shoes, etc. but it is nice to have them involved in the process. Some colours and styles work better for some than others. The maids may have valuable opinions regarding fabric choice, styling details such as sleeve length or neckline, ready made or custom designed, and cost. Listen to their ideas. Remember, the final choice still does rest with you.
Commonly the bridesmaids run errands and help with chores such as addressing invitations, wrapping cake or decorating the hall. It is wise to delegate tasks equally and according to talent. Try not to overwhelm any one particular person because they're extremely capable. Of course, if one of the maids lives out of town or there are other special circumstances, you might decide to alter the balance of work.
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